There is a very popular saying showing up in my newsfeed on Facebook quite frequently, and it goes like this: “Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.” Its a very true statement, but beware: it’s also one of those “warm fuzzies” that can cause us to miss ministry opportunities if we stop there.
Friday morning I was working the drive thru window but was on a restroom break, which meant I had to walk through the front counter area. On my way back to the drive thru window, I spotted a regular customer and stopped to greet him. He was smiling slightly but his eyes told a very different story. I started to keep walking but couldn’t. I stopped again and told him it looked like he had a lot on his mind,( i.e. one of those “battles”) and he teared up and just nodded. Now…he is a regular, but I really didn’t know hime that well..just that he is quiet, friendly, and usually smiling. But when a grown man tears up that fast, I tend to take notice.
So I asked him if he believed in prayer and if I could pray for him. More tears, real tears, and he nodded again. I waited to see if he wanted to volunteer any more information and he choked out, “please just pray”. I assured him I would and would begin right then..and then I had to ask him his first name! I had waited on him before, but not enough to remember his name. So he told me, got his food, and left.
Now there’s no miraculous ending here. I finished out my day, praying for him when I could, and I have prayed for him frequently since then. I have no idea if or when I will see him next, or whether his situation got better. But I do know that for that brief few minutes, I stepped past the “be kind” barrier, and allowed God to take me straight into ministering in His name for someone who needed Him. And I am SO grateful!!
So what’s the point? Being kind is indeed admirable and most of the that is sufficient and welcome to the “everyone’s” that we meet. AND YET!! As believers in the Lord Jesus Christ, who are saved by His blood, and wanting to do HIS work, we need to ALWAYS be ready to go further, and impact lives with HIM!! To God be the glory!!